Capricorn With Resilience Against Public Disrespect

Recently a friend mentioned something she felt we had in common. That is, we don’t care if we are disrespected in public. It struck me on two fronts. First, that she was right. Second, we both have strong Capricorn. So much for stereotypes.

I’m into better understanding things on a deep level these days, as shortcuts to knowledge exist. If you suffer when disrespected in public, these are the key things to develop, to overcome this issue.

1. Strong Internal Locus of Self-Worth Your sense of value and self-esteem comes from within, not from the external validation or opinions of strangers.

2. Emotional Maturity and Detachment You can observe disrespectful behavior without feeling the need to absorb it or make it about you.

3. Prioritization of Your Own Peace You recognize that engaging with every instance of perceived disrespect is a drain on your time, energy, and mental well-being.

4. A Form of Empowerment Paradoxically, not caring about public disrespect is an act of taking back your power.

5. A Shift in Perspective You and your friend likely view “public respect” differently. You may see it as a social contract that is nice when it happens but isn’t essential for your day-to-day happiness.

I see this as akin to having a strong immune system. It doesn’t mean you’ll never get sick (feel the sting of rejection), but it means you’ll fight off the illness faster and it won’t develop into a life-threatening condition.

You’re out in the world and you feel people “look down on you”.  Do you care?